Celebrating LGBTQ History Month: June 13, Mary Wickes

13 Jun

Today we honor and celebrate one of the most prolific character actors of the 20th Century. Born on this date in 1910, Mary Isabella Wickenhauser hailed from St. Louis. This society debutante had wealthy origins that belied the salty, working-class roles she cherished. Her abrupt, tell-it-like-it-is demeanor made her a consistent audience favorite on every medium for over six decades. She was particularly adroit in film parts that chided the super rich or exceptionally pious.

She originally intended a career in law, graduating from Washington University with a degree in political science. She participated in summer stock on the advice of a professor and fell in love with the theatre. She promptly moved to New York where she landed walk-on and understudy parts. Her first major role was as Margaret Hamilton’s understudy in The Wizard of Oz, for which she received unusually good reviews given she was not the lead.

After nearly a decade on stage, Hollywood came calling. Wickes reprised her role in The Man Who Came to Dinner for Warner Brothers and was fortunate enough to act opposite Bette Davis. The film was a smash and the hits kept coming. As a character actor, Wickes was not as restrained by the studio system and was allowed to freelance extensively. This gave her a chance to develop her chops and to work with a much broader range of talent than most of her contemporaries. She also served as the live-action model for Cruella DeVil in Disney’s 101 Dalmatians. She also took on a number of television roles, again being a highly demanded guest. She had regular, critically recognized roles on the Gertrude Berg Show and Dennis the Menace.

A face everyone knew but couldn’t quite put a name to, she lived a quiet personal life. Her longtime partner, Abby Carson, was a playwright. They shared an apartment in New York for decades. She supported a number of social causes without fanfare and on her death in 1995 set up a $2 million bequest in her parent’s names to establish a library to capture the more obscure history of film and television.

I loved her in Postcards From the Edge (she was SO edgy), but for me, Mary Wickes will always be Sister Mary Lazarus in the Sister Act movies. It perfectly captures her unexpected wit and sensibility.

13 Responses to “Celebrating LGBTQ History Month: June 13, Mary Wickes”

  1. Christine Noble June 13, 2012 at 9:37 am #

    Thank you once again dear for the history lesson. I don’t know what I’d do with out your updates (really, they consistently provide inspiration for my own writing.)

    • Michael Hulshof-Schmidt June 13, 2012 at 3:21 pm #

      Christine, You are always very kind. Thank you. I had not known that our Mary was lesbian until just recently, so I thought it would be a good idea to celebrate her.

  2. nevercontrary June 13, 2012 at 5:34 pm #

    I love her and the fact that she played a nun.

    • Michael Hulshof-Schmidt June 13, 2012 at 5:35 pm #

      I love her too. It is such a thrill to celebrate people that deserve our attention and appreciation.

  3. prideinmadness June 13, 2012 at 5:48 pm #

    Stop being awesome! 😛 I’ve nominated you for the Outstanding Blogger Award!


    • Michael Hulshof-Schmidt June 13, 2012 at 8:33 pm #

      Thank you. I am very honored. Thank you also for your continued commitment to social justice.

  4. katybrandes June 14, 2012 at 8:46 am #

    What a great tribute to her, and you’re absolutely right that I knew her face but couldn’t remember her parts. And she’s from St. Louis, right here in the “heartland.”

  5. Steven Smith February 13, 2015 at 1:26 pm #

    You have some reliable source about her and Abby Carson? Wikipedia removed that information for insufficient sources in May 2013.

    • Michael Hulshof-Schmidt February 13, 2015 at 4:21 pm #

      Hi Steven. Sadly, the sources I initially found have now disappeared. We have here a sad example of how the LGBTQ community faces so many barriers regarding documentation of our lives and how that documentation impacts our safety.

  6. john February 8, 2018 at 11:36 pm #

    Mary Wickets was not gay and she was a rightwing republican until death, just because a woman doesn’t mean she gay and Abby Carson was not her longtime partner/roommate. Mary was a product of her time

    I bet you can’t find a picture of Mary and Abby together

    • Michael Hulshof-Schmidt February 9, 2018 at 5:43 am #

      John, can you provide some documentation to your claim that she was a “rightwing republican until death?” It seems rather obvious why there would not be a picture of she and Abby together–it is called homophobia! Queer folk lived and still do live in fear for being queer.

  7. annburlingham November 16, 2019 at 11:36 pm #

    are you writing a parody blog, a la “Glen’s Homophobia Newsletter”? Some of your comments sound right out of Sedaris’ pen. Any serious historian would provide sources, not get huffy with questioners.



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