Social Workers Helping the Mormon Church to Embrace the LGBT Community

15 Sep
Friend or Foe ?

Friend or Foe ?

My dear friend and LGBTQ ally, Jennifer Carey inspired me to write this blog article and gave me permission to share a part of her narrative.  Jennifer grew up in the Mormon church and she has witnessed first hand:

I have witnessed myself the public and familial shaming and ostracizing of gay children, siblings, friends.

I have been friends with Jennifer for four years now and she is an amazing and humble ally for the LGBTQ community. As Jennifer pointed out to me, “One of the great internal debates of the church right now is its attitude towards homosexuals.”

Helping the Mormon Church look at and reflect upon its attitude toward the LGBTQ community is Dr. Caitlin Ryan, a medical social worker and self-identified lesbian. Ryan recalls her disappointment and despair with the passage of Prop 8 as she witnessed how the Mormon Church revealed itself as the wealthy, homophobic political and machine it is.  The Mormon Church wielded so much political power and economic power that it had a huge impact on the passing of Prop 8.

Dr. Ryan connected with Dr. Robert Rees, a Mormon and a religion professor, to address the homophobia within the church. I would say this is a lot to unpack, because it means also unpacking hundreds of years of established misogyny. Now in 2014, six years after Prop 8, Rees is working with Mormon families at ways to embrace LGBTQ family members.  Rees is working with Ryan’s Family Acceptance Project. Sadly, too many Mormons found themselves in the untenable position of feeling that they have to either reject their family members or reject their faith.

While I am not a person of “faith,” I do realize that the LGBTQ community needs the support of religious communities, especially of those religions that have done great harm to the LGBTQ community.  The Public Religions Research Institute found that the Mormon Church was second only to the Catholic Church in its hostility towards the LGBTQ community.

We clearly have a long way to go regarding addressing homophobia, which is enixtricably tied to misogyny.  I am hopeful that the work of Dr. Ryan and Dr. Rees will help move conversations that create more space for different people.  If you know of any LGBTQ person that is expressing suicidal thoughts or feelings please contact the Trevor Project.

7 Responses to “Social Workers Helping the Mormon Church to Embrace the LGBT Community”

  1. Jennifer Carey September 15, 2014 at 6:49 am #

    I do hope she is successful in her endeavors and that the Church can use its purported mandates of love and eternal family to ensure that families are not shattered as a result of their past practices. Mormon LGBTQ have higher suicide attempts and successes than any other religious community within the US (I do not have data for other countries).

    • Michael Hulshof-Schmidt September 15, 2014 at 6:54 am #

      Jennifer, thank you for being such a strong ally! Yes, I do hope Ryan and Rees are able to have a positive impact for the many LGBTQ folk within the Mormon community.

  2. prideinmadness September 15, 2014 at 6:50 am #

    I grew up in the Mormon Church. I was horrified when I heard how much money the Church put into fighting Prop 8 ( $25 million I believe). The Mormon Church does seem to be making great attempts at accepting LGBTQ members, families and community members and I am hopeful for them.

    • Michael Hulshof-Schmidt September 15, 2014 at 6:55 am #

      I don’t think I knew you grew up in the Mormon Church–thank you for sharing that! Thank you for commenting here and for all of the amazing and good work you do for people with mental health issues. Peace, Michael.

      • prideinmadness September 15, 2014 at 7:55 am #

        My pleasure as always!

        Keep being awesome!

  3. Central Oregon Coast NOW September 15, 2014 at 7:43 am #

    Reblogged this on Central Oregon Coast NOW.

    • Michael Hulshof-Schmidt September 15, 2014 at 7:56 am #

      Thank you for your solidarity, Nancy. Thank you also for reblogging this. Peace, Michael.

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