National Coming Out Day 2015: The Power of Visibility

11 Oct

Coming OutGrab your smelling salts, clutch your pearls: I have big news. I am gay, queer, a homosexual. Yes, it is true. October 11 is National Coming Out Day. Why do we need this day? Why do we need to celebrate this day?

I cannot underscore enough the importance of being out and visible.  The more visible we are as a community, the more difficult it is to target us and treat us as sub-human or second class citizens.

Currently there are 29 states — over half of the US — where it is still legal to actively discriminate against LGBT folk.  Look at this map provided by the ACLU to see where your state stands on protecting rights of LGBTQ people. Yes, in 29 states one can be fired for being gay. Not a big surprise that no state in the South has the slightest protection for the LGBT community. (There do exist individual cities that provide limited protection.)  I guess that wacky Lawrence v. Texas Supreme Court decision from 2003 meant nothing.

Sadly, in this election year, we have only seen venom coming from each GOP candidate regarding LGBTQ rights. Such asinine statements such as, “we will put them in camps,” coming from Mike Huckabee. My, I am having a deja vu moment here–almost as though Huckabee has no recollection of history. We have  Ted Cruz who rushed to the side of the bigot Kim Davis to canonize her. And of course, Rick (The P is Silent) Santorum, Ted Cruz, Ben Carson, and Bobby Jindal have all signed the antiquated and now obsolete the NOM Marriage Pledge of Hate. And Carly (I hate women and gays) Fiorina opposes ENDA promoting discrimination against the LGBTQ community. Marco Rubio also opposes ENDA and has gone so far as to say he will deny any rights for LGBTQ immigrants — my this group is charm free!

It is imperative that people see this as political! In 2014 we saw at least 16 LGBTQ people murdered because of their identities, and 11 of those 16 were people who are trans identified and of those 11, 10 were transwomen of color. Sadly, the numbers have only increased in 2015, and we know these numbers are not accurate because people are too fearful to identify, or authorities misidentify people.  We need to vote for people who will support LGBTQ rights.

And I  hold out great hope for the future. I have trans identified students in all of my classes who are embraced and cherished. I had the honor of meeting a transgender man who just turned 18. All I could think about what what strength and courage. Now, I ask everyone to think about how important it is for all of us to be visible and to support one another.

12 Responses to “National Coming Out Day 2015: The Power of Visibility”

  1. Central Oregon Coast NOW October 11, 2015 at 10:19 am #

    Reblogged this on Central Oregon Coast NOW.

  2. Mr. Militant Negro October 11, 2015 at 10:25 am #

    Reblogged this on The Militant Negro™.

  3. Susie Snyder October 11, 2015 at 12:02 pm #

    I’m inspired (by you and all the other brave souls) and outraged (by our country’s continued inhumanity and fear). Thanks for being so full of courage and love!

    • Michael Hulshof-Schmidt October 11, 2015 at 12:47 pm #

      Susie, thank you for being such a fierce and strong ally to all of us! Peace, Michael.

  4. Dr. Rex October 11, 2015 at 12:25 pm #

    Reblogged this on It Is What It Is and commented:
    “I’m Coming Out” ….. totally proud and happy!!

    • Michael Hulshof-Schmidt October 11, 2015 at 12:52 pm #

      Thank you for reblogging this, Dr. Rex. Thank you also for being so visible! Peace, Michael.

      • Dr. Rex October 11, 2015 at 1:01 pm #

        You are most welcome …. Thank YOU!! Hugs & peace!

  5. Lori Schmidt October 11, 2015 at 1:04 pm #

    Wonderful Post! ; )


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